My 3 Little Women

Unforgettable

2012-02-08T21:41:00.003-05:00

These days are full of moments I'd like to forget.

Messes, attitudes, frustration, stickiness, fatigue, bickering.

And poop. Lots of poop.

(sorry.)

But I'm on a mission to change my mind about these days.

They're precious!

Gifts from God... each day, each hour with these little ones on loan to me indefinitely.

Difficult though it is, I need to try to listen past the rowdy noise and enjoy their imaginations.

(a pregnant "Mary," riding a rather rambunctious "donkey.")

Mealtime should be a warm and anticipated time of family sharing... not a frustrating battle of wills.

And messes? They are the perfect kindling for these budding imaginations. A fairy tea party anyone?

I need to intentionally slow down and let my girls learn, grow, and DO... on their own.

Slowing down also provides opportunities for family outreach.

(sleepover with T, a neighbor girl whom my kids adore.)

I never thought it would be difficult to make time for reading together. But sometimes it is hard! I'm tired and busy, and dinner won't make itself.

These days are for savoring, for teaching and growing. I don't want to forget all that He is doing in me, in us. I need holy perspective.

Lord, help me to redeem the time!

Healthy Pumpkin Muffins

2012-02-06T19:58:00.000-05:00

I recently read a cute quotation:

"A muffin is just a clever way to eat cake for breakfast."

I recently made pumpkin muffins that (I think) can be justifiably deemed healthy. Or mostly so.

Each muffin contains about 160 calories. I wanted a muffin that tasted healthy (not super-sweet!) but not gross (tasteless & cardboard-y). They're dense and moist and flavorful! Yay, success!

Each muffin contains just about 2 teaspoons of sugar. I don't think they taste overly sweet, though next time I will try swapping out some of the brown sugar for natural sweeteners.

(I added nuts to half of the recipe; calculations do not include nuts.)

Healthy Pumpkin Muffins
Yield: 24

Ingredients
2-1/3 c. flour
3/4 c. ground flaxseed
2/3 c. oats
2 t. powder
1 T. pumpkin pie spice
1 c. brown sugar
1 can (15 oz.) pumpkin
1 c. plain yogurt
1/2 c. oil
3 eggs

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a large bowl, mix the dry ingredients together. In a smaller bowl, mix the wet ingredients. Add the pumpkin mixture to the dry ingredients and mix well. Fill greased muffin tins 3/4 full. Bake about 30 minutes or until muffins test done. Makes 2 dozen muffins.

We've Got Spirit, Yes We Do!

2012-02-06T19:20:00.000-05:00

Last week was Spirit Week at Olivia's school.

I love the dress-up part of it all.

Monday she was a ninja.

Tuesday she was a bunny.

Thursday she was mismatched.

Friday she was a junior cheerleader. (shown here, at the end, pointing)

Olivia is in the 2nd row of sweeties, toward the middle of the screen.

I thought I would die of all the cuteness! She adored the big-girl cheerleaders, who were all totally fantastic (read: patient!) with the little ones. She has already informed is that she WILL be doing this again next year!

It's a DIY Miracle! ($0.90 Personalized Pillar Candle with $2 DIY Hurricane)

2012-01-26T21:02:00.002-05:00

I like pretty things.

I do not, however, spend lots of money on pretty things.

I also do not have the Crafting gene. Crafts make me twitch. It's all the mess and the perfection that's required, and the concentration/focus... as well as the personal failure you feel when you don't get the results you were hoping for.

(That's what I've heard, anyway.)

BUT! When I came across this little project, I knew that I, LO, EVEN I could do this!

Behold: the DIY hurricane, sporting a DIY monogrammed pillar candle!

(I also do not have the photography gene.)

For the Hurricane, I used the these supplies, purchased from Dollar Tree:

glass candlestick
tall glass vase

Now, these instructions are PRET-TY tricky, so play close attention.

Apply super glue to the top rim of the candlestick.
Place the vase atop the candlestick, exactly in the center. (DUH.)
Place a small book on top, just for slight pressure, until the glue is dry.**

**Note: It would be pretty embarrassing to admit it, but if you did a little happy dance and puffed your chest out at all the craftiness which you obviously possess, it would be perfectly acceptable in the privacy of your own home.

In a Blogging Funk

2012-01-23T21:46:00.000-05:00

Maybe you've noticed that I haven't been posting much lately.

I have been busy.
(Haven't we all?)

I am trying not to feel guilty or even apologetic for not posting very often.
(Except for the fact that our children's grandparents do read here.)

I had one comment a month or so ago: an anonymous comment that read:

Way too much personal info about your 3 girls, just saying.

*shudder*
Creepy or what?!?? Maybe I need to make this a private blog.

Also, I think I have blogger's block.
(Oh, it's real.)

Maybe it's more than that. I've been writing here for over 6 years. Haven't I said just about all there is to say? Kids during holidays... kids saying funny things... kids giving me gray hairs... birthdays and Christmas programs and training issues... new jobs and road trips, weather is changing, kids getting sick, great recipes, kids at school... kids helping and learning and growing.
God's grace and guidance through it all.
(Now THERE'S something that doesn't get old!)

Snow Day

2012-01-22T16:53:00.000-05:00

We finally have snow in Michigan!

I love this stage: when the kids can go outside and play by themselves.

They love to eat the snow!

Kid-isms

2012-01-12T18:27:00.003-05:00

Every year, we make my parents a photo calendar for Christmas.
This year, we did something a little different for the captions--I "interviewed" the girls and put their cute responses on the calendar. Now that Christmas is over, I can share their sweet answers with all of you!

1. What's the best thing about being a kid?
Olivia (age 5): "Going to McDonald's."

2. What do you want to be when you grow up?
Olivia: "A pilgrim girl on the prairie."
Ellia (age 3.5): "A grownup."

3. How old is Mommy?
Ellia: "Eleventeen."

4. How old is Grandma?
Olivia: "Forty."
Ellia: "Eleven-fourteen."

5. What do most grownups want for their birthday?
O: "Kids!"

6. How do you know a person is old?
O: "They feel different, like leprosy or snakes."

7. What do grandparents like to do most of the time?
E: "Drink coffee."
O: "Sleep. Grandpa loves it!"

8. How do you know if someone is a good grandparent?
O: "They feed you well."

9. What's the worst part about being old?
O: "You still have to work hard."

10. What's the best part about being old?
O: "Having grandchildren. But they don't grow in your tummy."

11. Where do babies come from?
E: "Carseats. In Jeeps and cars and trucks and buses."

12. What was Mommy like as a kid?
O: "Like a Native American because you had brown skin."

13. What's your favorite thing to do with grandpa?
O: "Go outside in his deer stand. He carries me and he's strong! He can't even let me go."

14. When I grow up, I will not eat...
O: "Salad!"

15. When I see God, I will ask Him...
O: "What kind of fruit did Adam and Eve eat?"

Christmas 2011, Round 2

2011-12-26T23:34:00.000-05:00

Generation Three: 13 grandkids ages 9 and under

...just four years ago, our grandkids photo looked like this:

Relaxing with the Muppets Family Christmas

The girls so enjoy playing with their cousins! We LOVE getting them all together!

The kids do a gift exchange, and we have each child (here, Olivia) personally hand his/her cousin the gift. It's fun to watch both receiver AND giver get a blessing.

Christmas 2011, Round 1

2011-12-26T23:05:00.000-05:00

The girls open their stockings on Christmas Eve night.

Modeling their new PJ's from Grandma Susie & Grampa Gabe.

Christmas morning: Ellia loves Rapunzel and her long hair.

My parents gave them the gift of Learning How To Share,

cleverly disguised as two dolls wrapped together, with both of their names on the tag.

Brienna got a vacuum. She loves it and will vacuum right up to our feet, saying, "'Cuse me! I need to wacwuum!"

Ellia looks so big-girl in this photo, showing off some new puzzles.

Christmas 2011, Preparation

2011-12-22T22:10:00.001-05:00

We have been bustling and busy!

...making Christmas goodies...

Thus far my baking list has included the following:

Puppy Chow x2
Candy Cane Twists
Sugar Cookie Cut-outs
Peanut Brittle
Angel Food Candy
Peanut Clusters
Cream Cheese Coconut Balls
Gingerbread Snowman Cookies
Fudge
Pumpkin Cake Roll

Obviously, we have a solid grasp on the True Meaning of Christmas around here.

Ellia has been a tremendous help... rolling, cutting, and transferring cookies like a pro!

...dressing up...

...playing with the nativity toys...I think they "get it."

...more baking/decorating/eating, this time with the neighbor kids...

...and ice skating!

Christmas Program 2011

2011-12-19T20:59:00.000-05:00

(DO NOT READ THIS, NATE.) ((I MEAN IT.))

2011-12-05T21:36:00.000-05:00

Shhh!
Don't tell Nate, but I've been inspired by this super-wonderful idea.

Based on "The Twelve Days of Christmas," this is a terrific, intentional way of remembering and honoring... maybe even delighting your husband--or wife!--this Christmas season.

I can't wait to start scheming!
*rubs hands together*

Get Well Note

2011-12-05T08:38:00.000-05:00

When Nate had the stomach virus last week, his biggest complaint was the horrible body ache that came with it.

Livvie took compassion on him and composed this sweet note.

Thanksgiving 2011 (or more accurately, The 2011 Stomach Virus Chronicles)

2011-12-04T23:33:00.002-05:00

It's been a rough week or two for our little family. All we wanted to do was drive to Wisconsin, eat some good food with some good people, and drive back home. Problem is, the stomach virus is no respecter of persons! It all began on the way out there. Around 1 o'clock in the morning, near ~~Armpit of the USA~~ Gary, Indiana, Brienna began projectile vomiting.

Do you know what's worse than a vomiting 2-year-old who's trapped in a 5-point child restraint harness?

Nothing. That's what.

I'll spare you the grotesque details (I can hear you thanking me. You're welcome.). Suffice it to say, I got it, and then Nate got it. Then Livvie got a bad cold, and Brienna's stomach revolted again when we got home. Now Brienna and Ellia both have Olivia's yucky cold, and my own appetite has gone off and taken a nice long vacation.

And now Olivia's little cold has turned itself into bronchitis, which kept her home from school a couple days. It's keeping her up even now, 11:23 p.m., and I've just stripped her bed (again) because she coughed so hard that she threw up. (Again.)

Thanksgiving Day itself was fairly uneventful, though.

We like "uneventful" very much.

My girls are enamored with their darling cousin, Charlotte.

This is Generation Four, all except one.

Olivia and Malachi play so well together now.

I asked the kids, "What's your favorite thing to do at Grandma's?"

"WATCH MOVIES!"

Reading books was a close second.

I'm certain Brienna is telling Nate, "I do it mySELF!"

This was a hoot! These four daredevils would line up at the top of my folks' garage drive and then zoom off down the steep decline. They did this over and over again!

Olivia was too big a chicken to try the tire swing.

She liked the regular one, though.

I love candids. Look at that proud grandpa's face.

Five little grand-kiddos all in a row:

Charlotte (16 months), Brienna (2), Ellia (3), Olivia (5), Malachi (6)

Hope your Thanksgiving celebration was less germy than mine!

This and That

2011-11-21T21:24:00.000-05:00

A few shots of goings-on around here:

Brienna, "helping" me make granola bars. They all LOVE to help in the kitchen. Whenever I start rustling around in the cabinets, suddenly three little girls appear, pushing chairs over and asking, "Can I help, Mama?" As often as I can, I say, "Yes, please!!"

Olivia, protesting loudly when Nate and I forsook her to spend an evening out by ourselves. Taking a picture together did nothing to assuage her grief, as you can see.

Wrestlemania. Brienna should've been our boy.

Brienna kisses Grammy's ducks goodbye.

Olivia, carefully distributing dirty clothes into the washer. TOTALLY worth the 60 seconds it takes to get her set up and started.

Big, beautiful 3-year-old, all ready for church.

Brienna's first (real) haircut. Poor baby's hair grew in so unevenly, with some parts curly and some stick-straight. It looks much better. As an aside: I take mental pictures every day of her huge eyes and chipmunk cheeks. She hates it when I smother her chubby face with kisses, but I have to do it! She'll have slim, big-girl cheeks all too soon.

Family Photo, November 2011

2011-11-21T11:27:00.000-05:00

Too bad I decided not to do Christmas cards this year! What a nice photo!

Thank you, Lord, for the blessing of family!

Easy-Peasy Cookies

2011-11-10T21:38:00.001-05:00

I love this cookie recipe. Here's why:

They are delicious. Just ask my love handles. They know.
You can have them whipped up and ready for the oven in less than 3 minutes. Really!
They contain only five ingredients.
They are versatile!
A less messy recipe (WOW, say that five times fast!) for baking with kids? Doesn't exist!

(I am no photographer. This is as fancy as it gets here.)

And now, zee recipeeee.
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Easy-Peasy Cookies
1 (9-oz.) boxed cake mix
2/3 cup oats
1 stick butter, melted
1 egg
1/2 cup nuts, chips, or other add-in

Preheat oven to 375*. Mix all ingredients together, and shape into balls. Bake on ungreased baking sheets for 10-12 minutes or until just starting to brown.
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The adventure lies in the mixy-matchy of the cake mix and the add-in. Tonight my 2 littles and I made them using a yellow cake mix and a combination of butterscotch & chocolate chips. I, however, am especially interested in the following possibilities:

Dark chocolate fudge cake mix & dark chocolate chunks
Rainbow chip cake mix & M&M's
German chocolate cake mix & walnuts/coconut
Caramel cake mix & butterscotch chips

And as for baking with said little ones? Talk about easy! While the butter melted, Ellia dumped the cake mix, Brienna dumped the oats, and I cracked the egg. I gave them each a couple chocolate chips so they wouldn't fight over the stirring job... and we were done!

What cooking/baking adventures have you had with your littles recently?

Olivia is learning "How Great Thou Art."

2011-11-06T20:32:00.000-05:00

Little Theologians... and other conversations

2011-10-30T21:45:00.001-04:00

It is such a humbling responsibility--as well as a thrilling privilege!--to be someone's first introduction to Christ. Sometimes I can't believe the depth of their questions and thoughts!

Me: "Don't you want to pray tonight, Ellia?"
Ellia: "No. I'm too little."
Me: "No, you aren't! God loves to hear kids pray! And besides, prayer is just talking. You can talk. It's easy! You can tell God whatever you want, like, 'Dear God, I'm scared.' or, 'Dear God, thank you for being so good.' Or, 'Dear God, I love you!'"
Ellia: "Yes, but you can't give God a hug."
Me: "Well, that's true."
Ellia: "Where IS God?"
Me: "God is everywhere, all at the same time."
Ellia: "Is God in heaven, too?"
Me: "Yes, He is."
Ellia: "What does heaven look like?"
Me: "I don't know, because I haven't been there yet. But the Bible tells us that Heaven is beautiful and wonderful!"

Brienna isn't asking spiritual questions just yet. But she likes to repeat after us when we pray, which is always irritating when she does it to the girls. She also likes to "help" them work on their Kids4Truth memorization work, which makes them CRAZY. She's quick as a whip!

I especially love it when they all sing I Timothy 1:17:

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"Now unto the King eternal, immortal, invisible, the only wise God, be honor and glory forever and ever. Amen."

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We live approximately 1.5 miles from Olivia's school. One morning last week, we managed to have this conversation in that short ride:
Me: "Wow, what a pretty morning it is!"
Olivia: "Yes! God has made such beautiful things, right Mom?"
Me: "He certainly has! What a great God!"
Olivia: "Why did He create everything? The earth and all the animals and everything?"
Me: "God created just because He wanted to! The Bible tells us that He created everything for His own pleasure. And also because His creation brings Him glory. The trees and the changing seasons, and especially people... we can all show how good God is."
Olivia: "Mommy, is everything that God does good?"
Me: "YES! The Bible says, 'You, God are good, and you do good!' God does ONLY good things! That's who He is!"

And tonight at bedtime, Livvie begged me to lie next to her and cuddle for awhile. Out of nowhere, this conversation happened:

Olivia: "Mommy, we should have more than five people in our family. We should have ten."

Me: "TEN!?!! That's two parents... and EIGHT KIDS! Now THAT would be exciting, huh? That's a lot of sisters and brothers to share your stuff with!"

Olivia: "Yeah, and if we had a family that big, we would HAVE to have a bigger house."

Me: "Probably so! We'd be pretty smushed in here."

Olivia: "Plus, it'd be fun because we could have our own fellowship meetings."

We are never short on laughs around here!

Happy Birthday to Me!

2011-10-28T21:03:00.000-04:00

I celebrated my birthday this week. These little girls LOVE birthday celebrations, and they helped me by keeping me updated on how many days were left until my birthday. Their wonderful daddy sent me out of the house for the day on Saturday, and I enjoyed myself thoroughly while they shopped for me and made my cake.

When I returned home, Ellia greeted me with, "MAMA, WE BOUGHT YOU SLIPPERS!" We had pizza for dinner, followed by presents.

Olivia worked hard on a birthday card.

I can not stop laughing at this photo. I wish I could tell you I have no idea what Ellia is doing here, but unfortunately I'm pretty sure. She has a licking problem, and I'm certain she was gearing up to give that toy ketchup bottle a nice big smear. EW.

I pretended to be surprised by the slippers. They are 100% cozy. I will not be taking them off until mid-March.

My guy also bought me the most recent Getty CD, "Awaken the Dawn." I love it. And them. And him!

I must pause here to extol my husband's stellar kitchen skills. While it does contain a box of cake mix, it is a bit more complicated than that. This is a triple chocolate cake, which involves a recipe, and a bundt pan, and, you know, MEASURING and such. Halfway through my Saturday, I worried that he may not know to grease and then flour the crevice-y bundt pan, but as you can see, it looks beautiful. Even the homemade chocolate glaze is perfect. This bad boy was gone by Tuesday night.

I also received tickets to see Tim Hawkins, a Christian comedian. Heard of him?
OH, DEAR. He is funny. Take, for example, this:

I would love to know if this story really is true:

Yea, verily, methinks this will be a fun date.

It is fun to be thirty-one!

Fun on the Farm

2011-10-20T20:27:00.000-04:00

Couple weeks ago the girls and I joined some friends at a local petting farm.

***waiting for their friends to arrive***

It was a gorgeous fall morning, and we were so happy to spend it outside.

(It's been rainy and cold this week. I look at these photos fondly, I assure you!)

We went on a hayride...

...and we rode the ponies...

...and we ate a picnic lunch and rolled down the hill together!
(Well, the kids did.)

Ellia is still talking about how Aidan kissed her even after his mommy told him not to.

We did feed and pet and talk to and scold the animals, but I don't have photos of that. I was busy keeping their little fingers out of the animals' mouths and their own mouths and each other's mouths... also distributing carrots and such.

Thanks for a wonderful time!

Switcheroo

2011-10-15T15:04:00.000-04:00

We'd been considering giving Olivia her own room for some time, but our crazy schedules prevented us from actually doing it. Large chunks of time are hard to come by around here.

For two years, Brienna has had her own room, and the older two have been sharing a room.

Until last weekend! Nate was away on a little trip with his dad & brothers, so I decided to surprise him by switching Biggest Sister and Littlest Sister. It was fun!

I even had a little help(er).

***Brienna, helping me take the crib apart.***

Olivia wasn't sure about this at first.

"But Mommy, I don't want to sleep by myself!"

But once she got a look inside her new room, she loved it. Said it was PERFECT.

The two little ones are having a grand time together, too. It's a nice little change-up in the bedtime routine. A LOT less stressful in the mornings, too!

Fallish Adventures

2011-10-14T21:41:00.000-04:00

Last week we ripped out the garden.
And when I say, "we," I mean the girls and I!

They were so helpful to me! Not "helpful," like the way a 2-year-old drenches your entire kitchen and yourself and herself, when she "helps" you do the dishes. But really and truly helpful! I gave them the very important job of gleaning the tomatoes that lingered on the vines. They placed the tomatoes into their shopping cart and then (roughly) transferred them to the wagon... their idea, not mine.

Once the decent tomatoes were picked and the plants uprooted, the girls helped me by putting all of the stakes in a pile. I didn't care that it wasn't neat; I just didn't want to trip over them.

We had so much fun working together! They required very little instruction or refereeing; we simply enjoyed the lovely weather and the chance to be with each other. These sweeties take such pride in being a big helper to their mama! And I guess I must've hovered over the garden quite a bit during the growing season, cautioning them to walk between the rows and not to pull vegetables prematurely... because they thought it was great fun, picking each and every tomato! Even "the baby ones!"

Then one of them found a worm. And so they went on a Worm Hunting Expedition and I was left to finish the job alone. That was okay, for they had worked so diligently and happily!

They amaze me. These funny girls switched easily from gardening mode to dirt-digging mode to dress-up/playacting mode.

I love it when they help me willingly. It makes me excited for the day not too far off, when they're all bustling around our home, each contributing happily and productively to the family.

Children as Tools of our Sanctification

2011-10-13T15:50:00.001-04:00

God sometimes uses our children as cute little wake-up calls.

Does he ever do that in your family?

My kids provide some of the most intense sanctification opportunites!

Ellia admires the rabbits.

Last night at bedtime Olivia wanted to pray. She said a couple quick sentences and then, "Amen." Here, the rest of the conversation:

Me: "Well, that was fast. That's all you want to say to God?"

Olivia: "Yes, that's all."

Me: "But He loves it when we talk to Him! Would you like to pray some more?"

Olivia: "No... I don't want to waste His time."

Olivia, her first pony ride

Talk about a dagger straight to my heart! It brings stinging tears even now, this portrait I have given of our Heavenly Father... one who is too busy or disinterested to listen to His own.

Brienna shows Mama "a baby one."

Clearly ours is a precious and heavy job. I am so thankful today for the Spirit's work of conviction. What a thrilling task is set before me--showing my children from the Scriptures that God loves them, delights in them, inclines to hear their sweet prayers.

Medicine in Disguise

2011-10-06T17:55:00.001-04:00

All three girls have the sniffles.

Not enough to sideline them completely,

(a blessing AND a curse, to be sure!)

just enough to be cranky.

They wrinkle up their noses at the "sour" taste of our Vitamin C drink, similar to Emergen-C,

but when I mixed it up and poured it into their tea party pot???

They downed a packet's worth apiece, and asked for more!

This and That, in Numbered List Form

2011-10-05T21:24:00.000-04:00

1. Behold: the biggest head of cauliflower you've ever seen.

Thank you, Farmers Market. I am your biggest fan.

2. My kids love the library.

(Though I have no explanation for the construction worker lying face-down on the bookshelf.)

3. Ellia now bears no trace of baby-ish features, with one exception: She has a terrible, adorable lisp.

Or, as she would say, "lithp."

4. I have the cutest kids ever in the whole entire ~~world~~ universe.

5. One of them is five going on six...TEEN.

6. And the baby has just a touch of OCD.

5 going on 15

2011-09-28T09:03:00.000-04:00

This morning, as we approached Olivia's school, she announced, "Mommy, you can ust stop the car and let me out. You don't have to get out."

"Are you sure?" I asked. "Sometimes you have trouble with that big door."

She tossed her hair. "Oh, I know how to open it now. You just have to squeeze the handle and THEN pull."

"Plus, I also know what to do when your clothes catch on fire. You stop, drop, and roll."

7th Anniversary Getaway

2011-09-27T09:30:00.000-04:00

Until last weekend, it had been roughly 8 months since Nate & I went on a date of any sort.

And it had been over four years since we went somewhere overnight without our children.

IT WAS TIME, MY FRIENDS.

We mostly wanted to do some of the things you just simply can't do when you have kids. So we tried to plan our getaway with that in mind.

When the babysitter showed up Friday (with pizza, bless her heart!), we took off for our fancy schmancy hotel. We were so eager to get out the door that I left my camera behind. But I remembered my husband, so all was well. We got all snazzed up and went for a fancy and completely un-typical dinner.

Since it was fancy, the ambience was fantastic and romantic. Candlelit, with some eclectic decor and such. Our table was a couple of couches pulled up to a coffee table of sorts. Talk about cool!

Unfortunately, "fancy" also translates into "teeny-tiny portions." We each had two bites of sushi, which was absolutely delicious, not to mention FULLY COOKED. Or at least mostly cooked.

We also shared a cute little miniature sirloin steak with some blobs of berry sauce, and two dollops of wasabi mashed potatoes. YUM.

And then we paid the bill, crossed the street, and ordered a pizza. At 9:30 p.m.

Nope, not joking.

Then we did all kinds of things which are challenging when you have young children: we stayed up late and ate pizza in bed. We slept in until we were good and ready to rise.

We ate a hot breakfast with hot coffee AND ACTUALLY HAD A CONVERSATION OVER IT. We enjoyed a long soak in the hot tub.

Then we toured Greenfield Village, where I was pleasantly surprised to see this:

I decided to be funny and quote very loudly some of "The Road Not Taken" as we entered the home.

The joke was on me, since they had a recording of Robert Frost quoting the same poem at eighty-something years old. I was able to capture the last stanza.

We so enjoyed our time together!

It is lovely to walk through life with your best friend at your side.

What a kindness from God!

Olivia is FIVE!

2011-09-26T22:18:00.000-04:00

Our biggest little woman has arrived at the ripe ole age of five.

The way she talks and acts, though, you'd think she were twenty-five.

On the morning of her birthday, I asked her, "How do you feel?"

She thought about it and announced,

"I feel bigger, Mama. I feel like I'm actually six. Do I look six?"

Olivia is 100% bookworm, though she hates it when we tell her so. She can read very well.

She had only two big wishes for her birthday. One of them was a bike helmet.

Some time ago we decided that our kids don't need big birthday bashes every year. They aren't royalty, and we aren't rich! We will do parties for their first, fifth, tenth, and 16th birthdays. Olivia was thrilled when we announced that her big birthday party was going to be held at Pump It Up.

With the help of a friend, I made Livvie's birthday cake--a beach cake, which she LOVED.

Our friend and occasional babysitter made (YES, MADE!) this gown for Olivia.

Olivia is doing well in school. She absolutely loves everything about it, and we're getting a kick out of all the things she's learning, too. Lately she's been singing "God Bless America" quite a bit and telling the account of The Fall over and over again. She also likes to randomly recite the pledges whenever the mood strikes.

Her favorite foods are fairly typical: pizza, pasta, sandwiches, yogurt, breads, most fruit, and sweets.

Livvie is still a mama's girl. I asked her, "What is your favorite thing to do with me?" She said, "Oh, just anything. I just like to be with you all the time."

She's still very "into" the girly/feminine/pretty/(and yes, princess) stuff. When the princess mentality sets in (the sense of entitlement and in general being SPOILED), we remind her that she isn't really a princess. She loves to play dress-up and ballet and wedding and house.

We continue to work with Olivia on such issues as kindness toward others and a cheerful, thankful heart. She is a spirited girl, and we pray that God will be able to use her in a big way for him!

When she grows up, Olivia wants to be a teacher, a pilot, a firefighter, and a mother. I asked her, "I thought you wanted to be a missionary. What about that?"

She said, "Mom! You're so silly. I already AM a missionary, and I'll always be one!"

Brienna is TWO!

2011-09-17T19:34:00.000-04:00

My "baby" is two. TWO!

Brienna Elyse is so pretty. She's sassy and sweet and funny, too.

She's a cheese ball. Whenever the camera comes out, she says, "CHEEEEESE!"

Then she runs over to look at the photo and says, "Aww!"

Brienna, wearing one of my old shirts. It says, "Washington D.C. 1981."

Brienna is very curious.

A classic third-born, she constantly feels the need to keep up with her big sisters.

She's loud, fast, and stubborn.

Did I mention that she's curious?

the three girls, watching a daddy longlegs

Brienna has no trouble sleeping for naps and bedtime, since she completely wears herself out during the day!

Brienna opens her cards and gifts on her birthday.

My Girls: the models!

2011-09-11T07:34:00.000-04:00

A couple months ago my friend Melissa asked if my girls would be willing to pose as clothing/accessory models for her Etsy shop, The Trendy Tadpoles. To thank me, she'd make sure I got a few pictures of the girls to keep. I said sure!

Melissa was going to hire her photographer friend Rachel to do the photo shoot. I didn't know Rachel, and I didn't have time to browse her website, either. Weeks later, when we got a sneak peak at the photos, I was shocked at how gorgeous they were! Rachel did a fantastic job of capturing not only my cute kids, but also Melissa's lovely children's clothing!

And then Melissa sent me a CD of the pictures, so I could print off the ones I liked.

THERE WERE EIGHTY PHOTOGRAPHS ON IT.

Just check out all of the cuteness.

Sweet, hot baby. It was about 96 degrees on this afternoon.

(LOVE the bloomers!)

(LOVE the headband!)

The older two were being so funny and cute, so I told them to face each other and touch noses.

One of my top 3 faves. Do the bright colors POP, or what!?

Talk about adorable! I love the different patterns of this outfit.

Thank you, Rachel and Melissa! You both do amazing work!

I now have Olivia's 5-year photo, Ellia's 3-year, and Brienna's 2-year. Now I just have to pick which ones to blow up!

On This Day In 2006...

2011-09-10T17:39:00.000-04:00

Thank you, Lord, for the five blessed years with Olivia.

It is a privilege and a joy to have her in our care!

(Quick) Trip to WI

2011-09-06T18:53:00.000-04:00

The weekend before school started we went to my folks' for a quick visit. As always, it went by far too quickly for our liking, but we are always thankful for the opportunity to see them.

Olivia likes to read. A LOT.

We went to the county fair, where my girls were totally SPOILED with ride wristbands.

They absolutely loved the rides!

Even the baby loved 'em!

We sat around together, played outside lots, and ate. Lots.

And smiled lots, too.

Brienna loves baby dolls, but she didn't like this one's hair.

She kept trying to pull it out.

Vacation is tiring, I tell you!

Olivia's First Day of School

2011-08-30T13:14:00.003-04:00

Today I took my baby to her first day of Kindergarten.

I practically had to run to keep up with her.

I can't believe how quickly she has grown!

At the same time, she looked much too small for a school classroom.

(Her backpack is as big as she is.)

She brimmed with excitement when she found her seat.

And my eyes brimmed with tears! My baby!

Two other moms remarked on how well I was holding up. I laughed and tried not to whimper.

I had to make her put her book away so I could take a picture.

And then she said,

"Mommy, can you leave now?

It's time for school to start."

2011-08-22T15:44:00.000-04:00

When I told Olivia to make a funny face, this is what she did:

Ellia offered to straighten up the shoes. Nice job, helper!

Brienna has started a new naptime routine: she lays her baby doll beside her, and they read a book together.

School is Approaching!

2011-08-15T20:51:00.000-04:00

The almost-five-year-old is SO ready for school.

Wardrobe and all.

What Lovely Weather We're Having!

2011-08-10T22:50:00.002-04:00

So lovely, in fact, that we had our lunch picnic-style in the front yard.

The Butterfly Song

2011-08-05T11:14:00.000-04:00

I don't know why Ellia kept her finger pointed to herself.

The hair-flipping makes me laugh out loud.

I saw a little worm,

Crawling up a tree.

It wiggled and it wiggled,

And it wiggled right at me!

I put it in a box.

"Stay right there!" I said.

But when I opened up the box,

A butterfly instead!

I couldn't do it,

Even if I tried!
For only God in heaven

Can make a butterfly!

Pictures from my Phone

2011-08-05T09:44:00.000-04:00

I've never uploaded phone photos to the computer before today. I've been giggling for the past 20 minutes as I scroll through them... Here, the best of them. Enjoy!

We were expecting the carpet cleaning guy. Brienna thought it was a wonderful jungle gym.

Such a funny girl.

Another funny girl.

stylin' and profilin'

Olivia at the allergist. 2.5 hours, lots of screaming, one Up! viewing, and 26 pokes later, they told me what she's allergic to: cashews and peanuts. Thank you very much.

Hot Air Balloon Festival

Olivia's first bumper car ride

Garden

2011-08-04T08:17:00.003-04:00

Does a gardener ever get over the wonder of plant life?

I love the smell of tomato plants. If Eau de Tomato were available, I'd totally wear it.

I had two little rows of green beans, but alas, they are no more.

To the fat little bunny who nibbled them down to nubs:

WATCH OUT. I HAVE HALF A MIND TO CATCH YOU AND PUT YOU IN MY SOUP POT.

This baby bell pepper is so cute, wedged in there.

(Even cuter, though: the baby jalapenos!)

My snow peas are just about done. They don't appreciate the 90+-degree weather we've had.

Very few of them made it into the house anyway. The girls loved eating them right off of the plants!

For the record, when the pumpkin seed package tells you to allow eight feet of space all around your pumpkin plant, you should definitely obey. These monsters are threatening to choke out my parsley, several pepper plants, and especially my basil, which is doing exceptionally well! (Same thing goes for Eau de Basil, by the way.)

I have a couple watermelon plants back there by the mysterious blue bucket also. They're not nearly as invasive as the pumpkins. I'm thinking of ripping out a couple of the really huge vines, since the root base isn't doing well anyway.

How's your garden growing?

First Ponytail

2011-08-03T23:04:00.000-04:00

I can't handle the cuteness.

(Please ignore the fact that the child's clips do not match her outfit.)

Lifelong Student

2011-07-20T09:09:00.003-04:00

Nothing I've experienced has provided more intense sanctification opportunities than parenting.

I once heard someone quip, "I finally got to the point where I had parenting all figured out. But then? Then I had kids."
So much responsibility falls on our shoulders as their protector, provider, example, comforter, disciplinarian, and teacher.

Thankfully, the Lord is an infinitely more patient teacher than I.

* * *

"Make me to know your ways, O LORD; teach me your paths. Lead me in your truths and teach me."

Psalm 25:4-5

* * *

The most effective teachers are those who have mastered their subjects themselves. I find myself floundering and frustrated again, because I can not seem to "get" those things which I'm trying (unsuccessfully) to teach: kindness, self-control, happy obedience, true brokenness over sin.

* * *

"Teach me your way, O LORD, that I may walk in your truth; unite my heart to fear your name."

Psalm 86:11

* * *

How essential it is for me to carve out one-on-one tutoring time with my Teacher, and then guard it fiercely, soaking up as much as I can.

* * *

"Make me know the way I should go... Teach me to do your will."

Psalm 143:8b, 10

* * *

And He is the best of Teachers! He craves the one-on-one time more than I do. He is infinitely patient, exceedingly merciful, "righteous in all His ways and kind in all His works." (Psalm 145:17)

As both student and teacher, I can cling to His promise:

"I will instruct you and teach you in the way you should go; I will counsel you with my eye upon you."

Psalm 32:8

Independence Day Weekend 2011

2011-07-12T14:10:00.000-04:00

Brienna, wearing her indestructible sunglasses.

working "together" on a sand castle.

Brienna cleans the window. What a helper.

Livvie's getting really good at using her arm floaties!

8 of the 13 Adams Grandkids

Brienna keeps an eye on her candy stash at the parade.

Eating s'mores at Point Betsie

Wanted: Personal Assistant!

2011-07-11T21:29:00.001-04:00

The Proverbs 31 woman had hired help. Someday I hope to be like her, especially in that respect. Currently on my to-do list:

Function as Director of the 4's, 5's, and K's, and also a Team Leader, in our church's Vacation Bible School program.
Fill out & submit health insurance paperwork for myself and all three girls.
Get in approximately 1000 hours of piano practice.
Self-medicate a mild but irritating case of poison ivy.
Finish weeding the garden.

Get my house clean enough to live in safely.
Stake the tomato plants.
Try not to scratch poison ivy rashes.
Determine why we keep getting overcharged by our cell phone company.
Continue training the baby to keep her shoes on.

Maintain a positive attitude while scaling the steep slope of Mt. Laundry.
Get back on The Exercise Bandwagon.
Get back on The Read-Thru-The-Bible-In-A-Year Bandwagon.
Get back on The Blogging Bandwagon. (Clearly, I am the picture of motivation.)
Keep working on balancing my out-of-home job (secondary!) with my in-home jobs (primary!).
Take Ellia's 3-year pictures.

Go grocery shopping.
Dust.
Find and eliminate the poison ivy in my yard.
Scrub the bathtub.
No longer judge any busy woman who has a dirty bathtub.
No longer judge any mother whose children are a little bit wild.
Plan a menu.
Find a way to deter the resident mole from tunneling through our front lawn.
Fill the birdfeeder. Poor little things!
Finish pulling weeds in the driveway.
(Ugh, good grief.) CLEAN EYEGLASSES, for Pete's sake.
Continue treating Brienna's sunburn. (Yes, I am the leading candidate for Worst Mom Ever Award.)

Establish meaningful contact with my parents, who by now have probably concluded that I am dead or dying.
Go through every belonging we possess & purge ruthlessly for a garage sale.
Obtain cheap yet sturdy school clothing for Olivia.

and et cetera...
Anyone out there up for the job?

Busy, Busy, Busy!

2011-06-17T19:37:00.002-04:00

Ellia Joy turned three this week. Not that we could ever forget, but we've been reminiscing about the details of her arrival. She's growing and learning and quite happy, except for when she's not. We're working on using self-control with our voice, and showing kindness to others. And when I say "we," it's all-inclusive. Happy 3rd birthday, Ellia!

The garden is in and growing. Well, mostly. My green pepper row is still empty. I started jalapenos indoors from seed, and I've got about a dozen plants. Started tomatoes early, too, and I have nearly twenty. WOW, ambitious much?

Brienna is (still) our daredevil. She can climb into and on top of the most surprising places!

The up side: she totally wears herself out doing it.

Even though we aren't big into the princess craze, we did cave and give Ellia her one birthday wish: a princess cake. The look on her face made it totally worth it.

Remember this photo? The climbing whatever-they-are?

Well, this is how they look this evening:

We're elbow-deep in paint, getting lots of special projects and gifts ready for Father's Day.

Make that neck-deep.

Olivia Marie is coming up on FIVE years old. She tells us every day, "I don't want to wait all summer for school! I WANT TO GO RIGHT NOOOOOWWWWW!"

We are just as excited about Kindergarten as she is.

Hello, Spring! Nice to have you. Please do stay awhile!

2011-05-20T19:44:00.000-04:00

Dogwood blossom

Brienna plays with Nate's riding horse.

A diseased & dying willow tree that's coming down soon.

Are these morning glories? Whatever they are, they will completely engulf this chair by summer's end!

2 girls, in a rare moment of goodwill

Brienna, fresh out of the bath

the flowers I inherited. LOVE THEM!

creeping phlox

Wish I could say I'm growing these in my yard. But alas, no.

just your garden variety petunia

lovely tulips in the back flowerbed

Can someone tell me what this is? Have I been carefully cultivating a weed?

Yes, We're Still Alive...

2011-05-13T20:21:00.000-04:00

...we're just busy! We had a few guests drop in...

***my beautiful niece, Charlotte***

***all of the grandkids (my folks')***

...and we've been growing our hair out...

***Ellia Joy***

...and getting into (more) mischief...

***Brienna, sitting in the bay window, which is forbidden***

...and celebrating Christ's resurrection...

***Grammy and the grandkids, enjoying the Easter story on Resurrection Sunday***

...and enjoying the lovely spring weather...

***Grammy & Brienna***

...and getting bigger every time Mommy turns around...

***Ellia & Brienna***

...and enjoying some long-distance relatives...

***Grampa Gabe, Olivia, Ellia, Grandma Susie***

...and providing Mommy & Daddy with plenty of growth opportunities...

***Olivia Dearest***

...and keeping in touch with our peeps...

...and doing a little seed-starting!

What have YOU been up to?

2011-05-09T21:58:00.000-04:00

Brienna Elyse, 18 months

A Girl and Her Cantaloupe Wedges

2011-04-15T20:15:00.000-04:00

***my personal favorite***

***with juice running down her arms***

Fancy

2011-04-02T15:07:00.000-04:00

We like Fancy Nancy around here.

If they had their way, these three Fancy Nancies would get gussied up every day.

So when I found out that our local library was having a Fancy Nancy party, I knew we had to partake!

First, we had to get as fancy as we possibly could.

At the library, we listened to Fancy Nancy.

Then, after decorating our tiaras (which nobody wanted to wear very long, strangely enough), we enjoyed some very fancy cupcakes and punch.

"Oh, darling, you have a sprinkle on your fancy gown."

We made a new fancy friend, Tessa. And also some tissue paper flowers.

And then we made necklaces. How fancy!

And then one of us had a very fancy little meltdown. So we went home for some fancy mac-n-cheese and a long, fancy nap.

The (Fancy) End

Heard in our house recently (continued)

2011-03-31T12:44:00.001-04:00

(watching Nate fix something)
Me: "Isn't Daddy handy, girls!?"
Olivia: "Yes, he is! He's like God--he can fix anything!"

(looking at a lovely sunset photo)
"Look, Mommy! It's heaven!"
~~~~~Ellia

"Mommy, we've been waiting for the doctor forEVER, and I'M EXHAUSTED!"
~~~~~Olivia

Olivia: "Mommy, what's 'speechless' mean?"
Me: "It means you're so excited or surprised that you can't think of anything to say."
Olivia: "Oh. I've never been speechless. Not ever!"
Me: "Yes, I've noticed!"
Olivia: "Oh, well. Maybe I'll be speechless one day when I'm a grownup."

***Brienna, "helping" me make cookie dough***

Heard in our house recently...

2011-03-30T08:24:00.001-04:00

Olivia: "Look, Ellia, I'm beautiful!"
Ellia: "You can't be beautiful--you're not wearing a dress!"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

(singing)
"This is my Father's world,
And to my list'ning ears,
The waitress sings so now I see
--Into the... world I see...
Mommy, I know the song, except I have trouble on the 'world' part."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Olivia

Ellia: "Daddy should be a firefighter."
Mommy: "A firefighter! That's a dangerous and scary job!"
Ellia: "No, it isn't! He could ride in the back of the fire truck and then he wouldn't be scared!"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Olivia: "Do you think Daddy is sad now that all his grandparents are gone?"
Mommy: "Yes, probably so."
Olivia: "But now he doesn't have to worry, since he has his kids to comfort him. Right?"
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

New Duds for the Girls' Windows!

2011-03-28T08:45:00.002-04:00

These cute fairy curtains were a gift for my two little fairies. They also received pillowcases to match.

Much more appropriate for little girls than dark green!

Thank you, Ms. Kathy!

Weekend One-Liner

2011-03-27T09:07:00.000-04:00

Lullaby, and goodnight.

***Brienna***

Weekend One-Liner

2011-03-26T20:44:00.001-04:00

So nice to finally meet you, sweet little new cousin!

Jackson "Jack",

born to Justin & Kelly

03-19-11

Book Review: God's Promises Devotional Journal

2011-03-22T15:30:00.000-04:00

With this daily devotional book, you have to take the mediocre with the excellent.

It's entitled, God's Promises Devotional Journal: 365 Days of Experiencing the Lord's Blessings. A whole slew of Christian authors have contributed to the work, most of whom I'd never heard of prior to reading it. Among them:

Anne Graham Lotz
Robert Morris
Jack Countryman
Elisabeth Elliot
Dr. Larry Crabb
John Hagee
Neil Clark Warren
David Jeremiah
Henry & Richard Blackaby
Thomas Watson
RC Sproul
Richard Foster
Mary Graham
Patsy Clairmont
John MacArthur
Criswell Freeman
Max Lucado
Billy Graham

I had to resist the temptation to skip forward to read those excerpts by Elliot, Sproul, MacArthur, and Jeremiah. Their contributions, as usual, reflected a sound, Biblical view of God and excellent applications for the reader.

While much of the material could be deemed good, the book as a whole is not great. A few of the less notable reflections waxed on regarding the importance of boosting one's self-esteem/self-image, forgiving oneself, and the like. Regarding prayer, one author stated, "... if we persist in knocking, the promise is that God will eventually open the door."

One very well-known author paints a picture of God, looking down on Earth, "doomed, damned, crushed...He saw you and me, struggling beneath our load of sin. He made His decision [to become a man and atone for sin.]." The Scriptures clearly state that Christ's incarnation, suffering, death, and resurrection was in God's plan, even before the foundation of the world!

These less-than-stellar excerpts were the worst of the bad ones. Most of the remainder (except for those authors I mentioned previously) were good and fine and nice. Just not excellent.

Subject matter aside, I would've liked to see more material in general. Each day has one page, with about half the page devoted to the author's words. The bottom half of each page is lined, so the reader can record his notes/reflections/thoughts each day. If used, this book should certainly be supplemental to one's regular devotional diet and not the main course.

Disclaimer: I was given a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.

Daddy/Daughter Sweetness

2011-03-22T10:28:00.000-04:00

The girls' favorite thing to do in the whole wide world is reading.

Second on the list: snuggling and wrestling with their daddy.

On this day, Ellia was feeling particularly affectionate.

I did have to crop these photos significantly, however.

SOMEone kept getting in the way.

Who is like unto the LORD!??!

2011-03-21T16:25:00.001-04:00

***from Deuteronomy, chapter 30:

"The LORD your God will make you abundantly prosperous...

the LORD will again take delight in prospering you, ...

when you obey the voice of the LORD your God..."

God wants to bless me more desperately than I want His blessing! What a thought!

I take such joy in giving gifts to my children--to anyone!--but sometimes my gifts are not well-suited for their needs/desires/personality. Not so with God! He is the supreme gift-giver! Every day, every breath, every circumstance in my life--these are all gifts from your sovereign hand. Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU, God!

(photo source)

When I give my someone a gift and it's met with ungratefulness or apathy, it hurts! How much more is God grieved in His heart at my unthankful/faithless/complaining/anxious spirit?

***from chapter 31:

Be strong and courageous!

The LORD your God goes with you;

He will not leave you or forsake you.

Do not fear or be dismayed!"

I also love the Song of Moses in Exodus 15:

This is my God!
majestic in holiness
awesome in glorious deeds
glorious in power
doing wonders
in your steadfast love you have led the people whom you've redeemed
You have guided them by your strength
You reign forever and ever!

Book Review: 31 Days of Drawing Near to God

2011-03-19T22:21:00.000-04:00

Ruth Myers, a former missionary wife to China and bestselling author, has put together a devotional book entitled, 31 Days of Drawing Near to God: Resting Securely in His Delight. Many of the excerpts were lovely to meditate on, and my heart often soared in agreement as I worked through the book.

Myers quotes lots of poetry in 31 Days, as well as excerpts of many song texts. I found these references to be just a much a blessing--possibly more--than the devotionals themselves. Her writing style is pleasant and passionate, which makes the book easy to read.

One thing I didn't appreciate was her many references to Bible translations which appear to be quite loose, such as the The Moffatt Translation, The Wuest Translation, and The Berkeley Version. It should be noted, however, that I have read almost nothing of these particular translations and can certainly not call myself an expert on them.

I also raised an eyebrow when the author recounted her conversion experience.

...Mother did something so simple. She quoted a verse I'd known for as long as I could remember. But as she spoke, the truth dawned in my heart and I believed [quotes John 3:16 and states that she believed in Christ]. That night, for the first time I remember, I felt God's love. All this happened in an instant as Mother quoted John 3:16. When she finished, I bowed my head and thanked the Lord that He had given me eternal life.

Myers never really does lay out the Gospel in plain terms, start to finish. I wonder if it's because she assumes that the devotional will be read only by the Christian who is serious about growing in his walk with God. Still, it seems irresponsible not to proclaim the Truth, given the opportunity!

I did find some benefit from Myers's insights and passion, though I wouldn't recommend or give this book to someone about whose salvation I was uncertain.

Disclaimer: I received this book from WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group in exchange for an honest review. The opinions expressed here are my own.

Welcome, Spring!

2011-03-18T11:09:00.000-04:00

With highs in the upper 50's earlier this week, we couldn't NOT go for a long walk!
Olivia was finally able to try out her bike for the first time. She was a pro...

...and she knew it!

Ever the independent one, Brienna could not be entertained with just riding for very long.

We walked along the train tracks for a bit, chuckling at Livvie's arms, outstretched for balance. (She thinks she's a ballerina.)

And Brienna had to do just the same! Great balance, Brienna!

Thee and not Thy Gifts

2011-03-17T08:09:00.001-04:00

I came across this prayer by George Matheson, the blind Scottish pastor who also penned "O Love That Wilt Not Let Me Go" (emphasis mine).

"O Thou Divine Spirit, that in all events of life art knocking at the door of my heart, help me respond to Thee. I would take the events of my life as good and perfect gifts from Thee: I would receive even the sorrows of life as disguised gifts from Thee. I would have my heart open at all times to receive--at morning, noon, and night; in spring, and summer, and winter. Whether Thou comest to me in sunshine or in rain, I would take Thee into my heart joyfully. Thou art Thyself more than the sunshine, Thou art Thyself compensation for the rain; it is Thee and not Thy gifts I crave; knock, and I shall open unto Thee. Amen."

Brain Dump: Recipe Edition

2011-03-16T22:12:00.001-04:00

~~ Pancakes: Fluffy, flavorful, and perfect! But if your family is like mine (BIG fans of the pancakes!), double the recipe.

~~ Yogurt: so much better than the crockpot version, which never thickened up much at all, despite my best efforts. Olivia loves it with honey and cinnamon; Ellia likes it with strawberry jam; Brienna likes it with mashed-up fruit; I like it with honey and candied walnuts. And we all love it in smoothies! Plus, did you know that plain yogurt makes a fantastic substitute for sour cream?

~~ Baked Oatmeal: thanks to Alicia for giving me her recipe! I tweaked it slightly, and it is so easy and wonderful! My kids devour it (due in large part to the handful of chocolate chips tossed in!), and so do I! Here it is:

2 c. oats
scant 1/3 c. brown sugar
1 t. baking powder
3-4 T. ground flaxseed
1-1/2 c. milk
2 T. butter, melted
1 egg
1/3 c. add-in of your choice (raisins, walnuts, chocolate chips, etc.)

Preheat oven to 375*. Lightly grease an 8x8 pan. Mix together oats, sugar, baking powder, and flaxseed. Add milk, butter, and egg. Mix well. Stir in your add-in; spread in pan. Bake for 15 minutes. Enjoy!

~~ Bracioli: Mmm. You KNOW it's good when your husband pulls it out of the fridge at 9 p.m. for seconds.

~~ Tangy Broccoli-Cauliflower Salad: I've got a serious craving for this salad. It makes an eNORmous bowl. Nate eats one or two obligatory servings, and then I wolf it down for every meal over the next 4 to 6 days. OH TO THE YEAH.

1 head cauliflower, chopped
1 bunch broccoli, chopped
1/2 of a large jar green olives, sliced
3/4 c. black olives, sliced

Dressing:
1 T. each parsley & dill weed
1 t. garlic salt
1/2 c. each olive oil & vinegar

Place veggies & olives in a large bowl. Mix dressing well and toss well. Devour.

What have you been cooking up?

Olivia-isms

2011-03-15T09:09:00.000-04:00

Olivia: "Mommy, do you think God was pleased that Jacob loved Joseph more than his other sons?"
Mommy: "No, I don't think God was pleased by that. What do you think?"
Olivia: "I don't think so, either. Do you love my sisters more than you love me?"
Mommy: "No! I love all of you the same. I don't have a favorite."
Olivia: "That's good. That pleases God, too."
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Olivia: "Look, Mom! Brienna is hiding under her crib!"
Mommy: "Yes, I see that! What a funny girl."
Olivia: "I'm going to get you, Brienna! And I'm going to tickle your armpits,..." [pause]
...just like Joseph's brothers threw him into a pit! As in, armpit!"

Weekend One-Liner

2011-03-12T08:48:00.002-05:00

The best thing about having a sister was that I always had a friend. ~Cali Rae Turner

Brienna Elyse: 18-month update

2011-03-11T14:47:00.001-05:00

Next week our baby will be eighteen months old.

Uh, WHAT!??!?

Someone call the authorities, for it appears something has been stolen from me.
That would be the last, oh, 17 months of my life.

This photo brings me to tears.

Mostly because I wish--OH HOW I WISH!--the child would be still like this more often. She is into (and on top of) everything. I mean EV.ERY.THING.

You think I'm joking? I tell people she's into everything, and they always say, "Yep, she's at that stage... all toddlers are busy..." Oh no. No, no, no. My other two were never Into Everything like Brienna is. Here are just a few examples.

We've found her:

sitting on top of the dining table, eating handfuls of M&Ms.
playing inside the dryer.
standing on the bay window seat.
sitting on the computer desk.
climbing out of her crib.
trying to climb into her crib.
hiding under her crib.
tearing pages out of photo albums.
pulling cassette ribbon out of the tape.
programming the DVR.
using CD's as cymbals.
applying lipstick.
applying nail polish.
eating chapstick.
making sand castles out of fireplace ashes.
eating the dog's food.
eating the dog's treats.
pulling out and shredding an entire box of Kleenex.
licking the fly swatter.
emptying the contents of the filing cabinet.
playing with the stapler.

And this was just yesterday!

Craft: Headband Holder

2011-03-10T09:30:00.002-05:00

The girls and I did a quick (and cute!) project yesterday:

a headband holder!

Supplies

1 empty oats canister
enough paper to wrap around the canister
glue stick/mod podge/tape... or the adhesive of your choice

Instructions

Cut the paper down to size.
Adhere paper to canister.
Place headbands on headband holder.

They love it! And their brushes, combs, and detangling spray all fit inside!

Getting to Know Me: A to Z

2011-03-09T09:16:00.001-05:00

A different twist on the "Get to Know Me" survey.
It's alphabetized!

A. Age: 30 years old. Someone asked me if I "felt" thirty. I said, "Well, I've got 3 kids, several grey hairs, and a mortgage payment, so I guess I SHOULD be thirty!" SO not a big deal.

B. Bed Size: Queen. Not nearly big enough, since Nate likes the middle.

C. Chore You Dislike: It used to be washing dishes, but I find it's a geat opportunity to pray, sing, and memorize Scripture. Dusting, I guess, since I rarely do it. I just can't be bothered to flit around my house with a little rag, picking up everything, wiping, putting everything back... plus, there are always SO MANY other chores that scream loudly at me.

D. Dogs: Yes, one black lab named Trango. He'll be eleven this spring, and he is sweet, funny, and extremely tolerant of the Littles.

E. Essential Start to Your Day: Coffee. At least two cups. Paired with some quiet time with God, I'm all set!

F. Favorite Color: Oddly enough, I don't have one favorite. For clothing, I wear mostly black and tan, but I'm also a fan of green.

G. Gold or Silver: Mostly silver.

H. Height: 5'8"

I. Instruments You Play(ed): Piano

J. Job Title: Wife & Mother

K. Kids: Three.

L. Live: Michigan, USA

M. Mum’s Name: Mary.

N. Nicknames: Just "Babe," which Nate calls me. Olivia has called me Babe a few times, when she wants to get my attention and I'm too distracted. Talk about FUNNY!

O. Overnight Hospital Stays: Thankfully, only after childbirth.

P. Pet Peeves: I have too many, sadly. Mostly my pet peeves involve selfish, lazy, or otherwise thoughtless people.

Q. Quote from a Movie: Haven't seen a movie in quite a long time.

R. Righty or Lefty: Righty.

S. Siblings: Yes! I grew up with one fiesty, squirrely younger brother, and I have come to know 2 lovely half-sisters in adulthood. I have several other half-siblings, whom I don't know.

T. Time You Wake Up: On a good day, between 6 and 6:15. Of course, this hinges on what time I go to bed the night before, which depends on how much I've gotten accomplished that day, which depends on what time I get up in the morning. As you can see, it's easy to get stuck in bad habits, which is exactly where I am right now. Stuck.

U. Underwear: Um, ... yes? Please? Preferably comfortable and clean? (Weird.)

V. Veggies You Don’t Like: Haven't yet met one! I suppose okra, since I like it only if it's battered and deep-fried.

W. What Makes You Run Late: My three little darlings. In order to arrive anywhere on time, we have to begin getting shoes/coats/purses/diaper bags on twenty minutes before departure time. Also, I always forget to factor in Unloading Time--5-7 minutes--once we arrive at our destination.

X. X-Rays You’ve Had: Hand x-rays (It was broken). Back x-rays (One leg is longer than the other.) Seems like there were others, but I can't remember now.

Y. Yummy Food You Make: Ricotta cheese, chicken noodle soup, chocolate-themed desserts

Z. Zoo Animal Favorites: The polar bears are fun, if they're active. I really like the monkeys, though. They're just as funny as humans sometimes!

Your turn!

I Heart Markdowns! (subtitled: How to Know if You're Getting Old)

2011-03-03T13:24:00.000-05:00

We'd been without fruit for about 4 days, and the kids were missing it.
So was I.

So I bundled everyone up and headed to the nearest grocery store--about a mile away. It's not in a good neighborhood, and not exactly known for being the cheapest, most well-stocked store. But I was tired, and so were the girls. Their flier advertised a good sale on strawberries and pears, so off we went.

I nearly squealed with delight when I noticed several packages and bundles of marked-down produce, sitting dejectedly at the end of an unused register! Now, who says God doesn't ordain our steps?!?

a bag of Tropicana oranges: $1.49

a head of cauliflower: $1.39

4-packs of pears: $0.89 each

not pictured: packages of turkey bacon for $1 each, chicken pieces for $0.89/lb., and ground turkey for $1.88/lb.

I'm still feeling all warm & fuzzy inside at the thought of snagging such great deals!

Does this make me weird?

Old?

Crazy?

Lame?

Geeky?

Product Review: Encouraging Moments e-Newsletter

2011-03-01T15:02:00.000-05:00

When the first e-issue of Encouraging Moments (presented by Eternal Encouragement magazine) popped up in my inbox, I settled in with a sigh to dutifully read what I thought would be a long e-newsletter.

Then I saw the banner: "Our moments are short & sweet." Well ALL RIGHT! As a mother of 3 little ones and wife to a busy man...a short, sweet moment of encouragement is right up my alley!

I read the newsletter in under 5 minutes. The first sample issue dealt with battling strongholds of unbiblical thinking. I especially appreciated this new spin on the put off/put on principle:

"First, take out the garbage--the garbage thoughts--and don't collect any more... Secondly, you have to put the Bible where the dirt has been."

Author Lorrie Flem has a really comfortable way with words, and she's very matter-of-fact without seeming condescending. Her tender heart really comes through!

In addition to the main "meat" of the newsletter, each issue also includes several little varied sections:

Drastic Discount Days--highlights the current special going on over at the main website, http://www.homemakingwithteach.com/ .
On Facebook this Week--notes a couple thoughts offered on FB during that particular week.
Meet Lorrie in Person--gives the author's itinerary.
Chick Flicks for Mom--videos on a variety of topics, including marriage, homemaking, and family. I likely won't view too many of these, as my computer time is generally spent while the kids are sleeping.
Timely Tip--a short snippet of another article, followed by a link to the rest of it.

It's fast and easy to sign up for this free e-newsletter; simple enter your name and e-mail address on the Eternal Encouragement home page.

I'm looking forward to seeing a little more on the parenting side of things. I've received only two newsletters so far, so I know it's comin'!

Disclaimer: I am reviewing Encouraging Moments as an official member of The Gabby Moms blogging program for Eternal Encouragement magazine. I did not receive compensation for this post and all opinions are solely my own.

Weekend One-Liner

2011-02-26T09:57:00.000-05:00

We've got no plans for this lazy Saturday, other than steaming towers of buttery pancakes... a box of dress-up clothes... some lively music... a big stack of library books...

What's going on at your house today?

The Advantage of Little Helpers

2011-02-21T13:13:00.000-05:00

Usually, it's easier to do things ourselves, isn't it? When the kids "help," tasks take twice as long and get at least three times as messy... especially if they're helping you in the kitchen.

***Brienna LOVES to help with laundry!***

But encouraging them to help (or even just observe!) and then praising them for it is necessary! It teaches them responsibility; it lets them in on the blessing of service; it often makes for great conversation or one-on-one time! Plus, I don't think there are many little ones out there who'd say, "I've spent enough time with you lately, Mom. I'd rather not be with you!"

Or maybe it's just MY girl who'd be eternally happy if I held her hand and hung out with her every.single.moment of every.single.day. Forever and ever.

At some point, though, if we teach them thoroughly enough, patiently enough, and long enough... their "help" will actually be helpful! Sweet, sweet someday...

But sometimes it's definitely to your advantage when your helper is under 4 feet tall.

***"Couple more little socks in there, BabyDoll! You can reach them!"***

I took a nasty fall last week and haven't had a chance to visit my chiropractor yet.

Now this? THIS is the most "help" I've had in a long time!

Book Review: God Gave Us the World

2011-02-18T17:10:00.000-05:00

"Why didn't God make us all the same?" Little Cub wonders. He and his mama are wandering through a museum exhibit called, "Bears Around the World."

In God Gave Us the World, author Lisa Tawn Bergren moves even the youngest readers to marvel at God's wonderful creativity, His care for that creation, and each person's special place in His world. As is true for Bergren's other God Gave Us-- books, the appeal lies in the adorable, simple questions asked by Cub, and the loving responses given by Mama. I especially appreciated these:

"Every bear has a special place in God's great, big world."

"...the world reflects God's work. How big, big, BIG he is."

"God created our world and everything in it, because it's in his nature to create. Understanding that is part of why he put us here...to serve and worship him, our amazing God..."

The illustrations are just as darling as the story and dialogue. Now if I can just wait til one of my kids' birthdays to give it to them!

Disclosure: I received this book free from the WaterBrook Multnomah Publishing Group's Blogging for Books program. The opinions I have expressed are my own.

Photo Shoot

2011-02-16T12:42:00.000-05:00

All I wanted was one nice photo of the munchkins, to put in a frame for Nate's desk at work.

Help me choose!

Following are the three best photos:

Exhibit (a):

Exhibit (b):

Exhibit (c):

Weekend One-Liner

2011-02-12T09:58:00.000-05:00

One snowgirl + one tunnel/fort combo + teddy bear crackers + watered-down hot cocoa (with marshmallows!)...

equals two happy (and worn-out) campers!

Book Review: The Faith of Ronald Reagan

2011-02-11T21:48:00.000-05:00

Best-selling author Mary Beth Brown has written a warm tribute to America's fortieth president, Ronald Reagan, entitled simply, The Faith of Ronald Reagan. In the book's introduction, Brown pulls no punches about her primary goal for the work:

The purpose of this book, then, is to help individuals who are studying Ronald Reagan to learn that his Christian faith was what accounted for his success.

Brown makes good on her promise, too. In fact, if I were a casual reader with no particular devotion to Christ, I would likely be annoyed at best after reading this book. Scripture passages and Biblical themes abound, many of which are pulled from Reagan's own speeches or letters.

Brown leads the reader on a journey from Reagan's humble birth and upbringing all the way to his death on June 5, 2004. She includes a treasury of Reagan quotations--exceprts from his handwritten letters, portions from his autobiographies, snippets from important speeches he delivered, and interviews by those closest to him.

Brown's writing style seems overly simplistic at times, but the nature of the book lends itself well to such a style. She restates eagerly and often the theme of her book, in varied fashions. Reagan firmly believed that the sovereign God ruled in his everyday life, and his mission was to fulfill God's plan for him, with God's grace and help. While some deem this redundant, I thought it suited her purpose just fine. It never hurts to be reminded of Truth!

I kept looking and waiting for Reagan's salvation experience and never saw it. Perhaps Brown thought it unnecessary to include the actual circumstances surrounding the President's conversion. I was disappointed by that.

I found it interesting that Brown includes the five eulogies given at President Reagan's funeral--by his son Michael, his daughter Patti Davis, Margaret Thatcher, President George H.W. Bush, and President George W. Bush.

I'd give The Faith of Ronald Reagan 4 of 5 stars. It was an inspiring read!

Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book in exchange for honest review. All opinions expressed are my own.

Book Review: The Goodness of God

2011-02-09T08:37:00.002-05:00

The world has gone terribly wrong.
God is going to fix it.
For his eternal glory.
And for our eternal good.

This is the theme of Randy Alcorn's little book, The Goodness of God: Assurance of Purpose in the Midst of Suffering.

The note on the back cover indicates that The Goodness of God is a condensed version of Alcorn's If God is Good (I haven't read it.). In this little book--117 pages--Alcorn continually turns the reader's focus toward God's goodness and Christ's redeeming sacrifice. I thought he did a wonderful job of thoroughly addressing a wide spectrum of material in such a brief space! I was incredibly blessed by such a driven focus, and I'm not even "suffering" right now!

Alcorn begins by discussing the origins of evil and suffering, going back to Satan and the Garden. He discusses many alternative explanations for suffering, firmly repudiating each one with Scripture. Although he devotes one chapter to Christ's redemptive work on the cross, he refers to it throughout the entire book. One particular sentence was really striking:

Because Jesus willingly entered this world of evil and suffering and didn't spare himself, but took on the worst of it for my sake and yours, he has earned my trust even for what I can't understand.

Alcorn presents such a clear picture of the gospel and man's responsibility to accept Christ's atoning work. He pulls no punches, ending the book with a call to repentance.

In addition, Alcorn staunchly denies false teachings regarding suffering and evil: "health and wealth" teaching, relativism, atheism, and more.

Once you see Jesus as he really is, your worldview, your goals, your affections, everything--including your view of evil and suffering--will change.

Disclaimer: I was given a copy of this book in exchange for honest review. All opinions expressed here are my own.

Weekend One-Liner

2011-02-05T13:21:00.000-05:00

CAUTION: Three-kid pileup in the center of the kitchen floor!

Snow Day!

2011-02-02T12:26:00.001-05:00

We declared today a Snow Day!

(the fence between us and our neighbor.)

It's too cold and snowy for the two little ones to go out!

So how do you have a Snow Day--inside--when you're normally at home anyway?

First, pull the shades/blinds/curtains, so you can enjoy the beautiful, white scenery!

Stay in your jammies. (IF you can get your kids agree to it! Ellia likes clothes, NOT jammies.)

Do LOTS of reading.
Snuggled under a blanket is best.

Eat fun things. In fun places.
We like to eat in the kids' play tent by flashlight.

Take the day off of housework! And let your kids know it!
(Okay, so I wiped out the ~~science experiment~~ mess in the microwave today.
And I tossed the dog's blanket into the wash. But nothing else!)

Do something special together! Bake something, have a tea party, watch a movie, or get extra-fancy when you play dress-up. Just do it together!

And by all means, have some hot cocoa!

She is a Catch!

2011-02-01T13:22:00.002-05:00

Now taking applications: possible suitors for my middle child, Ellia, age 2-1/2.

You'll want to submit them as soon as possible--I'm certain there will be a mile-long line of parents, eager to match their little boys with this one!

She's a serious-natured child, with a sweet expression and a gentle disposition.

She's alert, bright-eyed, and definitely a morning person.

She is a quiet, meek soul--she's very content to sit and read, color, or work on her needlepoint.

She has impeccable manners, and she's always poised and appropriate.

An extremely intelligent child, she's got "smarts" written all over her face.

I'm certain Ellia is the creme de la creme--and I know you agree. Apply today!

Next up: the very-mature-for-her-age 4-year-old!

Stay tuned!

Weekend One-Liner

2011-01-29T09:11:00.000-05:00

This is the only time I can catch my breath and enjoy a moment's relaxation:

...when the busy baby sleeps!

A Special Focus for 2011

2011-01-28T10:37:00.001-05:00

For the past couple of weeks, I have been considering developing a personal focus or theme for this year, a simple truth on which I can intentionally meditate and focus throughout the year.

I prayed about what sort of theme would be most appropriate for this particular season of life, considering the things with which I struggle most... the areas in which I earnestly desire to grow... the Scriptures which God most often uses to reprove and encourage my heart. And I finally settled on a theme:

~~~Worship In Your Work~~~

Over and over these past few weeks, God has graciously reminded me of the real reason for which I [insert task/chore/responsibility here]. Every duty, every obligation, every task--regardless of how "small"--must be done for God's glory. And when I have that mindset, of doing everything I do with excellence, because I serve a God who is worth it, that's worship!

Worship is not reserved for Sundays. (At least it shouldn't be!)

And worship is not (just) the dutiful singing of three congregational hymns in front of a songleader.

Worship, as I heard it defined two weeks ago, is "any attitude, affection, or action by which we display the worth or value of God."

Do you know what that means?

DO YOU???

It means that when I wash sinkful after sinkful of dirty dishes, thanking God for providing a nourishing meal & the privilege of serving it to my family, I am expressing worship!

When I diligently work at my job, grateful for the enjoyable work and good pay, I am offering up fragrant worship!

When I do everything I can to help, respect, encourage, and promote Nate... that's worship!

When I sweep up sandwich crumbs, or put clean Kid Laundry away, or faithfully train my children in godliness, or sort through their piles of whathaveyou...

... God views it as beautiful worship!

What a precious opportunity!

"Whatever you do,

WORK HEARTILY,

as for the Lord...

...you are serving the Lord Christ."

--Colossians 3:23-24

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Do you have a special focus or theme for this year?

Renewing Their Minds

2011-01-26T08:03:00.001-05:00

I'm so glad we requested the Hide 'Em In Your Heart CD for Ellia this past Christmas. (It's Scripture, set to music.)

The kids have committed to memory verses about obedience, trust, loving each other, and prayer.

And they've also learned Romans 12:21.

In fact, the other day at lunch, Ellia was displaying a horrible attitude. My attempts to help her correct it were met with resistance, but you know what DID work? The reproof of her big sister, who said firmly but gently:

"Ellia, you are being overcome by evil. You really need to overcome evil with good!"

It Feels Good to be Needed

2011-01-24T18:07:00.000-05:00

I don't know if you've felt it or noticed, but I've been backing off of the blogging quite a bit lately. This is simply because these three little girls all still need me very much.

They are still so small. And they need me to help them with nearly every little task... dressing their dolls & themselves (except Olivia), lifting, zipping, stacking, eating, wiping, climbing, pouring, reaching, and pottying (except Olivia, again).

They need me to teach them about speaking kindly, preferring one another, and showing compassion.

They need me to train them to love work, to persevere in every task, and to take seriously their little (but not really) responsibilities.

They need me to model a meek & quiet heart, a joy in serving, and loving respect to their daddy.

So forgive me if I'm not so regular about this little speck on the blogosphere, okay?

I've got lots of work to do,

and precious time to redeem!

"...tell of His deeds in songs of joy!"

2011-01-21T09:02:00.000-05:00

After several months of searching, we're excited about a promising job opportunity for Nate. He is pursuing a full-time-plus sales position with a highly reputable auto dealership. We are so thankful for God's clear direction these last several weeks, in which we've explored and prayed over several different options... not all of them 100% appealing. It's been a test of faith, but it is always exciting to report that God is working.
I've landed a small part-time job myself, one that's fairly flexible and pays very well. The girls enjoy their special time with just their Daddy, and I'm enjoying a bit of alone (or nearly alone) time myself! It feels good to contribute to our family financially, even if it's just a small portion.
With the exception of one (very) small stomach bug, our family has enjoyed fantastic health this winter! We know many, many families who have not. We don't take it for granted.
I'm reading through the Bible via the Chronological Plan this year. I don't know why I never did it this way before; what a blessing! I'm amazed at God's providence in preserving His Word for me--little old me--to read and understand.
God has been busy among us: orchestrating events, bringing people into our path, meeting needs, growing our faith. It's a privilege to know Him and serve Him!

"And let them offer sacrifices of thanksgiving, and tell of His deeds in songs of joy!"

~~Psalm 107:22~~

Book Review: True Treasures

2011-01-20T14:24:00.001-05:00

Chock full of godly wisdom and encouragement, True Treasures is a super resource to keep handy!

True Treasures is a compilation of articles from TEACH Magazine. (Click the hyperlink, or paste this address into your browser: http://www.homemakingwithteach.com/). It's sort of a treasury of the classics!

True Treasures is divided into six chapters, with special focuses on the particular responsibilities of women:

Jewels that Make the Heart Sparkle (matters of the heart)
Marriages of Solid Gold
Parenting Pearls: Practical and Priceless
Homemaking that Dazzles like Diamonds
Homeschooling Nuggets of Wisdom
Godly Living that Glitters (spiritual growth)

The articles and testimonies are written by a variety of seasoned, wise women; the encouragement and challenges seemed to jump right off the pages and into my heart. The articles which most blessed me:

"Slow and Steady," which encouraged me to correct my view of my heavenly-assigned job (all the seemingly mundane duties which mothering young children involves!). Oh, how I need this one--every day!
"It's Raining, It's Pouring," which reminded me why godly submission is so beautiful and powerful.
"Do Your Children Rise and Call You Blessed, or Grouchy?" which called me to discipline myself to become a "morning person." (Ugh! Apparently, I can not be both a morning person AND a night owl.)
"In Search of Serenity," how to find rest for my soul! Physical rest is not nearly so essential as spiritual rest and trust in God!
"A Strong Woman versus a Woman of Strength" There's a BIG difference!

True Treasures is attractive enough to give as a gift--and what a gift this would make! (I'm having trouble deciding whether to add it to my library or to bless someone else!) Through May 31, 2011, TEACH is offering a coupon code for $4 off of True Treasures (only one per customer, per order): GabbyMom

Disclaimer: I received this product for honest review from TEACH Magazine as a part of The Gabby Moms blogging program. All opinions expressed are solely my own.

Kid Speak

2011-01-18T14:15:00.001-05:00

Lately the girls have been cracking us up with their funny statements and questions. A few of the latest and greatest:

* Nate walked in the door after clearing snow off of our vehicles, ice scraper in hand. Ellia asked, "Is that a GUN?"

*Olivia says dreamily, "Oh, how I wish I had a brother to kiss and hug and love!"
(not an announcement)

* I was cleaning and chopping cauliflower and tossing it into the steamer basket for dinner. Livvie saw some stray carrot sticks in the veggie bowl and said, "DON'T put any carrots in there, Mom--that would be GRODY!"

* Olivia and I were playing doctor, and the exchange was nothing short of delightful.

Mommy: "What's your name? Dr. Adams?"
Olivia: "No. Dr. Seuss."
Mommy: "Oh! So what's wrong with me, doc?"
Olivia: "I'm afraid you have poison."
M: "Poison! How did that happen? A poisonous animal? Like a snake? Some kinds of snakes are poisonous."
O: "No, not a snake. It was a poisonous bear. Sometimes, you see, bears get poisonous sand, and they make honey out of it."
M: "Well! I had no idea! Honey made from poisonous sand!"
O: "Yes. And there's also poisonous leaves and poisonous trees."
M: "Well, am I going to be all right? Is there some medicine I should take?"
O: "Yes." (produces a bottle of play meds) "Take two of these."
M: "Ew. I don't like medicine. Does this medicine taste good? What flavors do you have?"
O: "We have four flavors. Strawberry flavor, blueberry flavor, lemon flavor, and probiotics!"

Weekend One-Liner

2011-01-15T08:21:00.006-05:00

Scrub-a-dub-dub,

three beauties in the tub!

Ellia almost never looks at the camera.

She starts to, but as soon as the other two start saying, "Cheese!"...

...she just can't resist glancing over!

Various and Sundry (Brain Dump)

2011-01-14T13:18:00.002-05:00

1. I'm working to get back on the Healthy Eating and Exercise Bandwagon. You'll remember that I took somewhat of a vacation back in September, right? Well. It's been a long and glorious vacation, folks. I'm ashamed to say it: but my willpower and resolve and good intentions have flown the coop.

How can you blame me, though? Just look at this spread, featured at just ONE of the Christmas get-togethers this past season!

(Love how the salad fixin's are smooshed over to the far corner!)

So now my jeans are fitting juuuuust a little snugly, and my weight loss goal is set back at 12 or so pounds, to put me back to my wedding day weight. Not that I expect to ever fit into my wedding dress again. (The three suckling infants, you understand.)

I'm going to give the No "S" Eating Plan a try. It seems extremely do-able for me. I'll keep you posted.

Maybe.

2. This is making me all sorts of happy:

Mostly they just make Bubble Soup. But they enjoy "helping," and that's good enough for now.

3. Brienna is so, so funny. She cracks us up all day long.

(Except for when she drives us bonkers.)

I love this stage best, I think--right around 15-18 months. Her personality is really coming out now, and she's learning things at an astonishing rate! She's working very hard to perfect The Stinkeye. She's on a bit of a food strike; I think she read my bragging post on her stellar eating habits.

Rice cake=excellent food choice. Drizzled with caramel? Not quite, dearie.

4. Ellia, on the other hand, ate four slices of pizza last week.

That's FOUR.

F-O-U-R.

Four slices of a medium pizza! It was sickening to watch. She is her mother's child. (See number 1.)

5. My pointsettia is still alive. I bought it December 16th, and it's still alive and beautiful. This is most certainly a record for me, as I have horrible luck with houseplants. I even killed a cactus once. You know the ones--desert plants? Designed to survive in sand? And the harsh elements? With very little water? Yep, I killed one. But the pointsettia? Now this is a Christmas miracle. And to think it cost a mere three dollars!

6. I don't quite know why, but I really love this photo, taken sometime during the winter of 2004. Maybe it's our jubilant newlywed smiles, or my kicky foot pose. I think it's largely due to my very cute red sweater... which I don't remember ever owning. Where did this sweater come from? I don't wear much red at all, but why not? And why on earth did I get rid of it?

This Brain Dump has been successfully completed.

Thank you for your cooperation.

She comes by it honestly

2011-01-10T13:27:00.000-05:00

A few weeks ago I called my mother, exasperated. "Brienna is unbelievable! She is into absolutely everything, and the worst thing is her CLIMBING! We're always pulling her down from chairs, the window seat, the fireplace, the piano bench, EVERYTHING! Every single moment of the day is a 'training opportunity,' and I'm exhausted!"

Mom said, "Oh, I'm sure she's no worse than you were!"

And I probably said something like, "Yeah, right!"
(I'm so mature.)

Then, she & Dad came to visit, and she brought these photos of me, an 18-month-old Baby Karen, with her.

(standing on my dresser)

(sitting on the table)

I guess God answered the wish that so many exasperated young mothers make:

"I hope your children are just like you!"

Little Piggy

2011-01-03T13:44:00.000-05:00

Brienna is a hearty eater, thankfully!

When she has cleaned her plate and wants more, she offers up her plate for seconds (or thirds or fourths)!

She's not very picky, for which we're glad!

She doesn't care for boxed macaroni & cheese, peas, or red meat.

But we're okay with that!

(Brienna, requesting more taco casserole!)

Reading List: 2010

2010-12-29T14:00:00.000-05:00

Thanks to a black-and-white Reading List, I was motivated to do lots more reading than usual this year.

Following are the books I read in 2010 (not including children's books):

The Excellent Wife (Martha Peace)
Secrets of the Baby Whisperer: How to Calm, Connect, and Communicate with your Baby (Tracy Hogg & Melinda Blau)
In Light of Eternity: Perspectives on Heaven (Randy Alcorn)
Teach Them Diligently (Lou Priolo)
Don't Make Me Count to Three (Ginger Plowman)
John Bunyan (Kevin Belmonte)
The Jesus Storybook Bible: Every Story Whispers His Name (Sally Lloyd Jones)
Think No Evil: Inside the Story of the Amish Schoolhouse Shooting... and Beyond (Jonas Beiler & Shawn Smucker)
To Train Up a Child (Michael & Debi Pearl)
Same Kind of Different as Me: a Modern-Day Slave, an International Art Dealer, and the Unlikely Woman Who Bound Them Together (Ron Hall, Denver Moore, Lynn Vincent)
The Butterfly Effect: How Your Life Matters (Andy Andrews)
Love and Respect for a Lifetime (Dr. Emerson Eggerichs)
Outlive Your Life: You Were Made to Make a Difference (Max Lucado)
The Parents' Concise Guide to Childhood Vaccinations (Laura Feder)
The Total Money Makeover (Dave Ramsey)
On This Day in Christian History: 365 Amazing and Inspiring Stories about Saints, Martyrs, and Heroes (Robert J. Morgan)

How'd you do with your reading goals for 2010?

12 and counting

2010-12-28T14:50:00.000-05:00

We had a great Christmas with Nate's parents and siblings. Our kids are only three of twelve (nearly 13!) cousins! They had a wonderful time playing together. It's odd to be on the adult side of the action!

Here they are, in birth order:

Ryan's two oldest, Drew (8) and Caela (6); Shannon's Leah (almost 5); our Olivia (4); Ryan's boy Evan (4); Justin's boy Brendan (almost 4); Shannon's second, Emily (3); our Ellia (2.5); Justin's girl Reagan (2); our Brienna (15 mo.); Ryan's youngest, Elaina (1); and Shannon's third, Chloe (6 mo.). And Justin & Kelly are expecting their third in March!

I can't get over the sweetness of this face here:

(taken Christmas night, just before bed)

We've spent lots of time with extended family, and we love it!

Merry Christmas!

2010-12-25T07:10:00.000-05:00

Wishing you a Christ-centered Christmas season!

The Adams Family

Nate & Karen

Olivia, Ellia, Brienna

Christmas Goodies

2010-12-22T11:27:00.001-05:00

Last night I made our fourth batch of this sinful Christmas goody.

(We haven't eaten all four batches... most of them have been made for parties or gifts.)

(Though we've done our share of snitching.)

(Can't blame us--it's GOOD!)

Here's the recipe: totally foolproof, and nobody can ever believe it's made with saltine crackers!

Cracker Toffee
6-7 T. butter
1/2 c. brown sugar, lightly packed
about 1/2 sleeve saltine crackers
3/4 c. chocolate chips
additional toppings for garnish, if desired

1) Preheat oven to 400*. In a 13x9 pan, place saltine crackers in a single layer, covering as much of the bottom as possible (I cut them to fit). In a small saucepan, slowly bring butter and brown sugar to a boil. Boil about 2 minutes, stirring often, until mixture is bubble and a little foamy-looking. Pour over tops of crackers & gently spread to cover evenly.

2) Bake for 5 minutes. Immediately sprinkle chocolate chips over the top.

3) When chips are melty, spread gently to cover surface of crackers. Sprinkle with your choice of toppings, if desired. I use colored sugar, toffee bits, crushed candy canes, and the like.

4)When toffee has cooled completely (fridge is recommended!), slide a spatula under toffee to separate it from pan. Break into pieces and devour.

Or, give it grudgingly as a gift.
We can't get enough!
What's your go-to sweet recipe?

Book Review: On this Day in Christian History

2010-12-21T14:43:00.000-05:00

It would make a nice gift for any church history buff: On This Day in Christian History: 365 amazing and inspiring stories about saints, martyrs, and heroes, by Robert J. Morgan.

Unless you're particular about your definition of a hero, that is. The entries, which are dated like that of a daily devotional book, herald the deeds of such men as Ulrich Zwingli, C.H. Spurgeon, and Hudson Taylor. Inspiring, for sure!

Littering the pages also are folks such as Simeon, a monk who spent thirty years atop a tall pillar, and Elizabeth Hooton, a Quaker preacher. Morgan doesn't seem to be overly choosy in his inclusion of religious figures; however, it certainly does make for some interesting reading. I could imagine a pastor or inspirational speaker would find it especially interesting, both for general knowledge and for illustrative use. The book also includes an index of selected topics, a handy resource for such purposes.

Disclaimer: I was given a copy of this book by Thomas Nelson Publishers in exchange for this review. All opinions expressed here are my own.

Christmas Program 2010

2010-12-21T11:44:00.000-05:00

The kids' Christmas Program took place Sunday night. We were so suprised and thrilled when our neighbor showed up! This was a huge answer to prayer!

The kids did a wonderful job. Livvie played an angel, and she remembered her lines perfectly.

Ellia played Girl Who Pulls Her Dress Up.

I'm guessing it was no accident that she was placed behind the manger.

They loved getting all dressed up--even Brienna, who kept watching her poofy dress as she walked.

Christmas, a little early

2010-12-18T13:52:00.000-05:00

Last week our former neighbor came for a visit. She brought Brienna this sweet little rocking bug, with antennae that squeak.

She brought Nate & me some pecan tarts, and gingerbread cookies for the girls. She also gave them a copy of "The Gingerbread Boy."

Of course, Ellia had to hear it right away.

A friend knitted (crocheted?) these cute little shawls for the big girls.

We've already been blessed--and Christmas hasn't even come yet!

Making Memories

2010-12-15T16:12:00.000-05:00

We've been busy this Christmas season!

Five dozen cut-out cookies--Nate's great-grandmother's recipe.

A healthy (read: small) dose of Christmas classics.

Lots of Christmas Program practice. Our Children's program is this Sunday night at 6! Come ooh and ahh with me!

2 dozen gingerbread men, decorated by the girls and their cousins.

Plenty of great Christmas music! This year we're playing lots of Harry Connick, Jr., Veggie Tales Christmas, and the crooners--Bing, Frank, and Nat.

Some great chatting about the Christmas carols, and fun role-play of the Christmas story.

A little Christmas shopping, sewing, crafting, wrapping, etc...

A good bit of party-planning/going: church ladies' party, singles' party, home party, and others.

Lots (but never enough) of housecleaning, Christmas decorating, & snow-admiring.

And not a lot of blogging, Facebooking, or leisure time!

Weekend One-Liner

2010-12-11T13:05:00.001-05:00

One beautiful (FREE!) complete twin bed:
an upgrade for both big girls!

My 3 Little Women

Unforgettable

Healthy Pumpkin Muffins

We've Got Spirit, Yes We Do!

It's a DIY Miracle! ($0.90 Personalized Pillar Candle with $2 DIY Hurricane)

In a Blogging Funk

Snow Day

Kid-isms

Christmas 2011, Round 2

Christmas 2011, Round 1

Christmas 2011, Preparation

Christmas Program 2011

(DO NOT READ THIS, NATE.) ((I MEAN IT.))

Get Well Note

Thanksgiving 2011 (or more accurately, The 2011 Stomach Virus Chronicles)

This and That

Family Photo, November 2011

Easy-Peasy Cookies

Olivia is learning "How Great Thou Art."

Little Theologians... and other conversations

Happy Birthday to Me!

Fun on the Farm

Switcheroo

Fallish Adventures

Children as Tools of our Sanctification

Medicine in Disguise

This and That, in Numbered List Form

5 going on 15

7th Anniversary Getaway

Olivia is FIVE!

Brienna is TWO!

My Girls: the models!

On This Day In 2006...

(Quick) Trip to WI

Olivia's First Day of School

School is Approaching!

What Lovely Weather We're Having!

The Butterfly Song

Pictures from my Phone

Garden

First Ponytail

Lifelong Student

Independence Day Weekend 2011

Wanted: Personal Assistant!

Busy, Busy, Busy!

Hello, Spring! Nice to have you. Please do stay awhile!

Yes, We're Still Alive...

A Girl and Her Cantaloupe Wedges

Fancy

Heard in our house recently (continued)

Heard in our house recently...

New Duds for the Girls' Windows!

Weekend One-Liner

Weekend One-Liner

Book Review: God's Promises Devotional Journal

Daddy/Daughter Sweetness

Who is like unto the LORD!??!

Book Review: 31 Days of Drawing Near to God

Welcome, Spring!

Thee and not Thy Gifts

Brain Dump: Recipe Edition

Olivia-isms

Weekend One-Liner

Brienna Elyse: 18-month update

Craft: Headband Holder

Getting to Know Me: A to Z

I *Heart* Markdowns! (subtitled: How to Know if You're Getting Old)

Product Review: Encouraging Moments e-Newsletter

Weekend One-Liner

The Advantage of Little Helpers

Book Review: God Gave Us the World

Photo Shoot

Weekend One-Liner

Book Review: The Faith of Ronald Reagan

Book Review: The Goodness of God

Weekend One-Liner

Snow Day!

She is a Catch!

Weekend One-Liner

A Special Focus for 2011

I Heart Markdowns! (subtitled: How to Know if You're Getting Old)